The Kinetic Blog

April 15, 2013

Leaning Into Fear

I never thought I would be able to find a connection between the terrible storms of the past week and my dating life . . . but I have done it! I am scared of storms, all storms.  As a boy I would hide under the covers at the rumbling of the thunder (and honestly […]

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April 8, 2013

Finding Lasting Love

I have had a very colorful and varied history with on-line dating. When I explored it for the first time in 2009 I felt ten years behind the times (honestly I often feel ten years behind the times). From 1999-2009 I was in a monogamous relationship so the on-line dating “movement” escaped me.  I did […]

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April 1, 2013

Sacred

Wow, what a “gay” week. The Supreme Court hearings related to both The Defense of Marriage Act and California’s Proposition 8 have me thinking this Easter season about what is sacred in our lives. To me marriage is sacred and it’s about . . . 1. Two adults who love each other 2. Two adults […]

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March 25, 2013

Close to Tears

Death anniversaries are a big deal in Italian-American culture.  As my regular readers know I grew up in a very large ethnic family in New Jersey. Yesterday, March 24th, was the anniversary of my mother’s death.  I was in my early twenties when cancer ravaged her body. After she died my stepfather shared a story […]

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March 11, 2013

Second Chances

The weather has finally shifted and spring is in the air.  Woo hoo! This past weekend I needed to send a package to Catholic University. Since it was sunny and warm, I thought, “Instead of mailing it I will cajole my friend, Jaime, to go on a monster walk to deliver the package in person.” […]

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